Feelings are fical. Hurt is an emotion. Hurt is designed to keep you down. Hurt feelings rob us from the blessings of God. Hurt will prevent you from going on.
When a convenant has been broken you do not have to stay committed. You are faced with the same decisions on the day you said "I Do." However, there is never a promotion with out faithfulness.
Forgiveness is a decision not a feeling. Forgive whoever hurt you; this is an act of Faith. Ephesians 6:16
Freedom comes from within. It does not matter what people do to you once you forgive. And once you forgive, stop reliving it. Forgiving is forgetting. Your healing in this situation comes from giving and ministering to others.
The root of the family should be based on agape love/unconditional agape love. Emotional human love is selfish. The love of God is unconditional. The law of life is love. You lack the thing you ar emost selfish with. Remember God is love and he heals all things.
Notes taken from Dr. C. Dollar's discussion on Defeating Selfishness in the Family; Freedom from Hurt & Love vs. Selfishness in the Family
TRUST YOUR HUSBAND MORE AND MAKE HIM SEE YOU AS HIS ANGEL. NO HUSBAND CHEATS ON HIS WIFE, WHAT THEY GO TO LOOK FOR OUTSIDE IS THE MISSING QUALITY THEY USED TO SEE IN THEIR WIFE. REMEMBER IMMEDIATELY QUEEN OF SHEBA LEFT SOLOMON, HE WENT SEARCHING OUT A THOUSAND WOMEN LOOKING FOR WHAT? SEX? COMPANION? OR MARRIAGE? NO, HE WAS LOOKING FOR ANOTHER WOMAN WHO HAS THE SAME AMAZING QUALITIES OF QUEEN OF SHEBA EVEN THOUGH SHE IS A RULER AND A WEALTHY WOMAN, SHE HUMBLE HERSELF BEFORE SOLOMON AND MADE HIM HER LORD. AS SOON AS SHE LEFT SOLOMON, SOLOMON'S LIFE BECOMES VOID OF A WONDERFUL AND GIFTED WOMAN
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