Relationships: Vital Information for Couples

Would you marry you?

We are always looking for the perfect relationship.
The goal is to find that perfect someone who will make our lives a better place to be.
It is unfortunate that we don't realize perfection runs two ways.
In order to find that perfect somebody, we must believe that, whatever perfect is, we have already achieved it.
No one can give us what we don't already have.
Mr. or Ms. Right cannot be to us what we are not.
If we are unhappy, unfulfilled, not pleased about who we are, we owe it to ourselves to stop looking.
We have to ask ourselves: Would I marry me?
Am I doing my best, giving my all, being the best I can be to myself?
If not, why are we pawning ourselves off on someone else.
We need to take time to do some homework on self-love, self-esteem, and self confidence.
When we can pass the test of self-acceptance, the perfect someone who will compliment all that we already are will walk right through the door.

Affirmation: The love and harmony within me reaches out and draws my mate.
~Iyanla Vanzant (Acts of Faith)

Only choose to marry a woman whom you would choose as a friend if she were a man.~Joseph Joubert

If you know what you want, you will recognize it when you see it.-Bill Cosby

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Permalink Reply by Anthony Bryant on November 27, 2009 at 6:24pm: YES I WOULD MARRY ME BECAUSE I`D BE LOYAL; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by Divine Beginnings Marriage Ministry on November 28, 2009 at 4:01pm: The Bible clearly instructs that finding a mate or spouse to marry is not our responsibility, it is God's. Proverbs 19:14 "House and riches are the inheritance of fathers:and a prudent wife is from the Lord. Two important insights; one this scripture distinctly point out that we should not select wives and husbands as we do earthly possesstions. They are not even in the same catagory. Maybe, because our selection process is based on how they look, the return on their investment, how much they make, What will I get from it?; we tend to treat spouses as possessions and not partners. The second insight is prudent (look it up) this is not an innate ability, it is a character that is received from God when submitting to Him in an intimate relationship. Who can find a virtuous women? This is a rhetorical question that states only God can. When we attempt to operate in a capacity that is God's we run the risk of 1. Not being connected to the person that is connected to our destiny/purpose. 2. Having to settle with a spouse and in a marriage that does not allow us to reach our full potential individually or collectively. There are so many scriptures that are overlooked concerning God's appointed position for selecting our spouse that it isn't funny. We have reached the red alert status in failure of marriages especially for Christians. Because our understanding is void of God's template of spousal selection we fall to the methods that the world use and we suffer from the same consequences. I invite you to visit Divine Beginnings Marriage Ministry's website www.gloriousvisionsinc.org; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by Pintoglory Ministries on November 30, 2009 at 2:05am: MARRY ME?
It is a sign of self absolved mindset. For years i have searched for a perfect woman, for 20 years i had gotten angry with almost every lady i had seen, until i came across Husbands, love your wives, and be not bitter against them.
Col 3:19 (KJV). Which means the wives will always make their husband's bitter. That is why I came up with Dont get jilted get married on www.asoreland.blogspots.com and also The secret to keeping away your husband's mistress on www.keepawaymistress.info. There are strategic information and realities that faces our marriages which in the name of faith we overlook. But these are issues to look into to keep our marriage, if you read Secret and reality in my blog in www. keepawaymistress.info you will understand these realities, that faces every growing marriage. And i will want every woman also to find time and read dont get jilted get married in my blog www.asoreland.blogspot. i want most women to understand that it is not about Mr Right, It is about been the wife the man is in need of. remember. Rebeka never did any courtship or engagement or marriage committee visit, yet she had the most successful polygamous free marriage in the bible. To know that the success of marriage is more than just prayer and anointing. The earthly parents of our Lord Jesus never had a very successful marriage. The longest courtship in bible between Jacob and Rachel, which is also the biggest love sacrifice a man can do for the woman he loves ended up in the world most biblical failed marriage. The success of Rebbeka and Isaac's marriage was with Rebbeka.; ▶ Reply to This